Over the last few days new (and fantastic) updates to hepays now means everyone can now post on the stream. Previously you needed credit in your account to post on the stream, in turn bringing more attention to your profile. Since the update my attention has now been brought to a lot more new findommes on the website who seem to be hitting a wall.
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To reference my first blog post it is NOT easy and quick money, this website can be a goldmine however since the pandemic an influx of members have now joined the website, an influx of what I like to call the “false hope fetishists”, these “subs” will enter your messages with promises of big payouts for little effort but will then run you around for days on end with no payout at the end of it. I do not call these people time wasters or scammers as they are not wasting your time, you’re wasting your own time by jumping through hoops with zero proof that they’re willing to actually pay you. I have come across a lot of these “subs” in my time of being a findomme however if their message isn’t “Sent” or “what payment method should I use” they get a nice big fat BLOCK.
I am in no way saying that subs who can’t pay can’t be useful, some subs have wonderful talents they can offer in a “trade for trade” situation, they might be able to write you an essay, give you PT sessions, make banners or websites, run your socials, RT everything on twitter or even write you poems or draw beautiful art for you. It’s totally worth it in the end because you could have someone to those menial tasks that you really do not have time for.
Now where I’m seeing SO many dommes on the stream going wrong in their approach.
First of all LOAD UP YOUR ACCOUNT, it could be as little as $10 however this does many things for you. First off it pushes your stream posts to the top which is a lot more noticeable to potential subs. Secondly this makes you look legitimate to a potential sub, if you have paid money into your account you’re looking less like you’re a catfish.
Loading your account may seem pointless if you’ve made no money yet, however you have to spend money to make money.
The next thing I’m going to advise you on is set your minimum to write as $1 or more, this will stop the endless influx of these “sugar daddies” entering your messages. Do NOT fall for the bullshit they seemingly spout, it is utter garbage, they aren’t going to pay you $500 weekly, I promise. You can read more on this https://www.hepays.com/links/scam.php, take the time to look over this post and you’ll be fine!
Another thing, make a decent bio, not all subs will read this however the ones that do read it like to know what they’re getting into before they approach you. Some subs are looking for a really sadistic domme and some are looking for a caring one, if a sub comes into your messages and you reply with the “fuck you” attitude they’ll run for the hills. My final point is =, do NOT steal other dommes bio’s thats shitty and we don’t do that here.
The last two things I will say are first of all please STOP posting things on the stream such as “I’ve been here two weeks and all I’ve had is time wasters or scammers” this shit makes you look easy to mess with and easy to troll, not got anything? thats fine! Fake it until you make it. Secondly stop posting nudes, I’ve said it before I’ll say it again, you are giving away FREE content! The amount of titties and vaginas I’ve seen recently is insane, set up an onlyfans or AVN and censor your content! This will more than likely bring an influx of traffic to your pages!
I hope this helps and please apply a lot of these tips on your other socials!
Any other questions please don’t hesitate to message me