IF you are interested in becoming a Findomme (Financial Domme/Dominatrix), I will share with you the first steps taken to start your journey.
Financial domination as a fetish is about power exchange. Let’s be honest, one of the things that we as humans find hard to let go are our hard earned money and the moment we are willing to give up is when we truly wish something or in this case, someone. No! A finsub will not buy you, but he will however try to get more of your time, your attention and charms by spoiling you with gifts and tributes. The amount? It’s up to how much power you can behold on someone, how wicked your mind is and what limits you both set at the beginning of your relationship.
How to start your journey?
First of all you have to make yourself known, let the potential subs find you, and how this can not be done by going in a club with “findomme” tattooed on your forehead ( although is a pretty cool idea hehe) first step would be, as in most businesses today, advertise yourself online. There are several pages where submissive and dominant people interact.
Some are social media pages such as Twitter, Instagram etc. Some are pages created specially for it, an example of a page with thousand of daily sing ups with people interested in findom is HePays.com. Once you created your profile, with an alias, you may write about the things you are looking for, the type of submissive people you will engage and your expectation. After you created your Findomme profile, you may start by engaging in posts with other Findommes and finsubs, politely, without trying to advertise yourself on their posts/pages. Do not try and poach owned subs, the community is very against this, it’s disrespectful and the only thing will get you is to be excluded and made fun of.
Take into consideration that
-findom is a fetish where the finsubs are controlled financially and not a way out of the financial issue you may have.
-finsubs are sexually aroused by this fetish, not stupid.
-begging is not dominant, neither is emotionally manipulating someone into giving you money for a cause.
-success is not guaranteed, findom is about hard work, dedication and patience.
The moment you will get your first finsub, your first tribute, you will understand the real power that comes with financial domination. I compare findom with true love. Can you imagine having someone give up their greed, their willpower, their comfort just to make their Domme happy, having Her as their top priority in life? No expectations, no demands. Pure servitude!