There are literally hundreds of different relationship models nowadays. With the advent of social media & sexual liberation for both men and women, the liberation of financial dependency and many other socioeconomic developments in the past years, people are experimenting with all kinds of relationship modalities without conforming to anything their parents did.
From polyamoric relationships to asexual relationships, open relationships, financial relationships the list is really endless.
The most important thing is that people decide and experiment what they want rather than a conditioned society telling them what they should do.
So the question is not so much what is wrong or what is right. It is the right to make your own mistakes in new ways that is essential.
So even if a relationship model that you have chosen doesn’t work out in the end, you can at least say you tried it and learned something from it. Having a loving sugardaddy for example is still better than a beating husband. That is for sure.
I would say i would fall into the category of being a sugardaddy. I would never ever pay a prostitute. But i would have no problem paying a girl or several girls that live with me their living costs as long as we all enjoy a loving atmosphere. I am aware that if i didn’t pay for these expenses than i would be probably interesting. And its not because they wouldn’t like me its rather that they don’t want to work in a normal society workplace context.
A lot of people see the rapid changes in the world and people are asking themselves “why should i go into a normal work environment” if i can live and experience beautiful things while i am still young. And i think this argument is very valid.
The same goes for Findom. Some women don’t want to get involved sexually but they want to have the same financial benefit as sugarbabes do. If there were no finances involved Findommes would not be interested. Its literally the glue that binds everything together.
Some Findommes slip into porn and nudity because its an easy buck on the internet and some subs (submissive men) dash out the same sometimes more money than porn costs. So its not uncommon for a sub to pay 2 or 20 times the amount he would for a porn subscription and he gets much less content. But the thrill of being dedicated to one goddess gets him off.
So to make things short i think here is a good way to choose:
Sugarbabe – if you want to travel the world or live with a man you learn from who has lots of experience and makes you feel great. You are probably more submissive in your character.
Findomme – If you have a boyfriend or you don’t want to get sexually involved and you are the dominating type of person. Who gets off by dominating over men.
Or just forget both if you want to get into a normal employee lifestyle or want to sweat running your own company 🙂